Riani blog

week end, Saturday

end of the april, abang pulang pagi, ada tes yg harus dijalanin.. pagi2 mama bendi nelp, ada yg meninggal, tuo har… jadi dateng kesana ngelayat mesti bawa ayam. Abang bangun jam 9, ada mamayang nelp n mau nebeng juga ke sana..

jadi b4 pergi ngelayat di daerah kebayoran..

astagaaa.. ini hari kok panas banget ya.. ampe lepek bgt deh gw… ketemu nessa ama firda disana.. katanya kak gita buka toko baju di cipulir mas.. wah.. enak tuh belanja kesana.. hehe… pulang dari sana nganter mamayang dulu ke pd gede. Ada rifki, lg sakit katanya.. trus ariel juga mau d operasi amandel katanya.. duh kasian bgt ya? Ini anak sial mulu deh.. kayanya ketiban pulung.. dulu mulai dari kesiram air panas, kejepit di rantai sepeda, kekurung di mobil di garasi 1 jam, ilang 2 jam di Giant, sekarang mau d operasi amandel… duh.. ga tega bgt deh kayanya gw… si ganteng satu ini… krn anak tengah jadi d cuekin… hiks.. tinggal ama tinda aja mau g aril? Hehe.. biar ada mainan..

pas mau pulang si neysha baru dateng ama babe nya.

Ampe rumah jam setengah 5.. si lasmi ga ada kabar juga.. mama mulai nyolot.. hehe.. seenaknya bgt sih tuh pembantu.. di kasi ati minta jantung.. kalo ky gini kan jadi gantung mau cari pembantu baru ato nunggu dia.

Begitu nyampe rumah langsung nyiapin yg mau dibawa ke pengajian d pejompongan besok. Yup! That’s right.. sate Singapore lg.. lg ngetrend neeh kayanya.. hehe… biasalah musiman bikinnya.. ntar lg juga bosen.. oh iya, mampir dulu ke pasar beli kecap ama kacang mede.

Mulai deh bakar2an dari magrib ampe jam 8.. mama telantar makannya jadinya.. hihihi.. iya nih, mulai dari mama sakit matanya, lasmi ga ada, jadi gw yg masak dirumah.. like it or not.. its my responsibility now..

Its late nite here.. bobo dulu ah.. gnite..

I read something good phrase from my email…

Apapun respon yang orang lain berikan, respon kita sepenuhnya tergantung diri kita sendiri.

Jikapun orang lain gosipin kita yg jelek2, kalo kita ga terpancing untuk marah, ya ngak terjadi kemarahan.

Kualitas manusia itu tercermin dari prilakunya. Kalaupun ada orang lain berprilaku jelek, kita ga usah ikut2an.

Kita justru harus membangun atmosfir yang positif, supaya orang yg negatif malahan kebawa jadi positif.

Baik atau jelek isi hati seseorang, Tuhan yang menjadi hakimnya, bukan kita. Sesama org berdosa ga boleh saling menghakimi.

English – I love you
Afrikaans – Ek het jou lief
Albanian – Te dua
Arabic – Ana behibak (to male)
Arabic – Ana behibek (to female)
Armenian – Yes kez sirumen
Bambara – M’bi fe
Bangla – Aamee tuma ke bhalo aashi
Belarusian – Ya tabe kahayu
Bisaya – Nahigugma ako kanimo
Bulgarian – Obicham te
Cambodian – Soro lahn nhee ah
Cantonese Chinese – Ngo oiy ney a
Catalan – T’estimo
Cheyenne – Ne mohotatse
Chichewa – Ndimakukonda
Corsican – Ti tengu caru (to male)
Creol – Mi aime jou
Croatian – Volim te
Czech – Miluji te
Danish – Jeg Elsker Dig
Dutch – Ik hou van jou
Elf (from The Lord of The Rings, by J.R.R. Tolkien)- “le melin” (thanks Markus)
Esperanto – Mi amas vin
Estonian – Ma armastan sind
Ethiopian – Afgreki’
Faroese – Eg elski teg
Farsi – Doset daram
Filipino – Mahal kita
Finnish – Mina rakastan sinua
French – Je t’aime, Je t’adore
Frisian – Ik hâld fan dy
Gaelic – Ta gra agam ort
Georgian – Mikvarhar
German – Ich liebe dich
Greek – S’agapo
Gujarati – Hoo thunay prem karoo choo
Hiligaynon – Palangga ko ikaw
Hawaiian – Aloha Au Ia`oe (Thanks Craig)
Hebrew – Ani ohev otah (to female)
Hebrew – Ani ohev et otha (to male)
Hiligaynon – Guina higugma ko ikaw
Hindi – Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hae
Hmong – Kuv hlub koj
Hopi – Nu’ umi unangwa’ta
Hungarian – Szeretlek
Icelandic – Eg elska tig
Ilonggo – Palangga ko ikaw
Indonesian – Saya cinta padamu
Inuit – Negligevapse
Irish – Taim i’ ngra leat
Italian – Ti amo
Japanese – Aishiteru
Kannada – Naanu ninna preetisuttene
Kapampangan – Kaluguran daka
Kiswahili – Nakupenda
Konkani – Tu magel moga cho
Korean – Sarang Heyo
Latin – Te amo
Latvian – Es tevi miilu
Lebanese – Bahibak
Lithuanian – Tave myliu
Malay – Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu
Malayalam – Njan Ninne Premikunnu
Mandarin Chinese – Wo ai ni
Marathi – Me tula prem karto
Mohawk – Kanbhik
Moroccan – Ana moajaba bik
Nahuatl – Ni mits neki
Navaho – Ayor anosh’ni
Norwegian – Jeg Elsker Deg
Pandacan – Syota na kita!!
Pangasinan – Inaru Taka
Papiamento – Mi ta stimabo
Persian – Doo-set daaram
Pig Latin – Iay ovlay ouyay
Polish – Kocham Ciebie
Portuguese – Eu te amo
Romanian – Te iubesc
Russian – Ya tebya liubliu
Scot Gaelic – Tha gra\dh agam ort
Serbian – Volim te
Setswana – Ke a go rata
Sign Language – ,\,,/ (represents position of fingers when signing’I Love You’)
Sindhi – Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan
Sioux – Techihhila
Slovak – Lu`bim ta
Slovenian – Ljubim te
Spanish – Te quiero / Te amo
Swahili – Ninapenda wewe
Swedish – Jag alskar dig
Swiss-German – Ich lieb Di
Surinam – Mi lobi joe
Tagalog – Mahal kita
Taiwanese – Wa ga ei li
Tahitian – Ua Here Vau Ia Oe
Tamil – Nan unnai kathalikaraen
Telugu – Nenu ninnu premistunnanu
Thai – Chan rak khun (to male)
Thai – Phom rak khun (to female)
Turkish – Seni Seviyorum
Ukrainian – Ya tebe kahayu
Urdu – mai aap say pyaar karta hoo
Vietnamese – Anh ye^u em (to female)
Vietnamese – Em ye^u anh (to male)
Welsh – ‘Rwy’n dy garu di
Yiddish – Ikh hob dikh
Yoruba – Mo ni fe

“Seek first to understand, then to be understood”

Don’t hold back communication. You should always feel free to express an upset or talk about something you feel is wrong. Remember, it isn’t WHAT you say… it’s HOW you say it!

Make sure you have enough time to actually hash out your differences. If you try to stop your partner on his way to work, or you call her on your lunch break, chances are you’re going to be left feeling dissatisfied and unacknowledged due to a lack of time. If necessary, agree upon a future time to discuss the matter at hand. Being considerate of your partner’s time contributes to the amount of courtesy your partner will show when faced with your discussion.

Don’t assume anything! It is not possible to know exactly what is going on, unless you actually hear it from your partner’s perspective. Don’t try to figure out what they’re thinking, just ask. It can save you a lot of grief and avoid HUGE misconceptions by taking the time to just talk it over.

Don’t bring the past into a current discussion. If you actually want a problem resolved you have to make your partner feel like they can actually resolve it. When you bring up the past you are communicating to them, that no matter what changes or efforts they given to improve the condition, you will still hold them accountable for past actions. Where’s the motivation for improvement there?

If something is your fault, say you’re sorry! Don’t hold out and try to redirect the blame to something or someone else. If you broke a promise, said something you wished you didn’t or did something you’d rather not confess to, it’s up to you to make amends. Not only will YOU feel better about your ability to come clean, but your partner will learn to trust you more knowing you’re willing to accept responsibility.

Take a timeout before things get too heated. If you feel your anger level rising, take a 15 minute timeout to gain a new perspective. Take a walk, listen to some music or do some housecleaning to help dissipate your ire.

Don’t fight in front of friends or family. You automatically put the other person on guard when you enter into a major disagreement in front of others. In addition, instead of the disagreement staying a personal matter, which it should be, it now becomes open to other input. Trust me; you do not want anyone else adding in their two cents, even if it’s in support of your feelings. Think about it from your partner’s shoes. Would you actually give an open and honest discussion if you felt you were up against an army? Agree that you will both talk about what happened away from prying eyes and ears.

“The next time you want to see eye to eye, try using your ears”

** tapi di gw kadang kenyataannya ga kaya gitu.. hihihi…

pagi pergi ke pasar, belanja.. lasmi blm pulang juga.. sebel…. Jemput mama dulu dari Akian, ke kuburan, liat papa, trus ke pasar, siang jalan ke Mal Artha Gading.. lumayan enak juga, blm banyak yg buka, jadi masi blm terlalu crowded.. sore jam 3 janji ama temen mama ada yg dateng dari

Singapore

, its their firs time.. jadilah kita jadi tour guide mereka.. hehe.. diajak jalan ke PS, katanya ga jauh beda ama mall2nya mereka.. ya iya lah.. yg beda kalo diajak ke Mangga dua.. hehehe.. trus balik ampe rumah jam 6, mama pergi lagi dijemput sopir utk dinner d Gran Melia ama mereka.. wah enaknya…

Something happened this Saturday nite.. I hate this, I can do nothing… everything seems so wild… I won’t forget what his done to me. Not even a second part. He even don’t looks like himself.. !!! Please stop make me hurt.

long weekend.. heh.. didn’t go out somewhere special.. bt gak tuh?? Pagi2 abang udah pergi nemenin papanya dirumah.. gw jalan ama uni fifi, bang fari, mamayang, ibu n my mommy.. plus baby n neysha.. nyari bahan utk bang fari. Dapet semuanya di mayestik, mamayang kalap.. hehehe.. dapet seragam buat ibu2nya… pulang abis tu ke rumah ibu dulu, abang pulang jam 5.. kangen banget ama ashya… hiks..

Tuesday,

Bagun pagi, nyiapin sarapan, pake spaghetti yg dibuat tadi malem.. haaa… sarapan pake spaghetti? Hehe… yup… ga ada pembantu seh neeh.. bt mode > on bener2 kerja kaya babu dah… capeeek bgt…

Tadi dtg telat, mampir dulu ke bank bni pim nutup rekening.. payah pelayanan nya seeeh.. layoutnya disana udah keren sekarang, model retro bgt.. ampe kantor jam 10.. hihihi..

Siang lunch bareng lincul ama indro ke ambas, nemenin dia ketemuan ama temennya nitip lamaran.. ama beli tempat tissue buat dikantor… mam nasi bali.. nyamnyam.. enak juga..

Hp udah laku.. ehhehe.. dapet duit..dapet duit.. dapet duit…

Riani

You enjoy being as a leader and insist on having your own way on your group. You love taking on responsibility. You are often criticized for being domineering and vain and rarely admit being wrong. You are ambitious and never stop trying to reach your goals.

Start a new week again.. mondaaay.. huaaah.. feel so boring.. tadi pagi nganter mama, trus beli bensin, muter2 d blok s nyari tukang indomie, hehe.. laper bo pagi2.. n ampe kantornya telat.. n now I have to back to work.. n work n work.. whuuuu…

1. Be romantic.
   Whenever a relationship starts to fail, the lack of romance is one of the first indicators. It is very natural for people to get complacent and forget the fun things they used to do when they first got together. A relationship has to be constantly worked on and being romantic is an absolute must.
2. Never disparage yourself.
   Whenever you are disparaging yourself, you are basically saying that you are no good for your partner. If you don’t believe that you are good enough for them, then you won’t be. It’s as simple as that. Don’t sit around and beat yourself up over past mistakes that will only prevent you from trying and succeeding at new things tomorrow.

1. Always be honest.
   There is not one single relationship that will succeed in the long run if built on a lie. Even if your partner never finds out the truth, the fact that you know you lied will affect your feelings for yourself and your partner. With that kind of a hindrance, the relationship will never reach it’s full potential.
2. Do not do things just to keep your partner happy.
   How many times have you done something for or to your partner that you really did not want to do, just to make them happy? How did it make you feel? Every time you compromise yourself in that way, a piece of your love for them dies. It is much better to explain to them that you don’t feel good about certain things and work on an alternative together.
3. Do not ask your partner to do things you know they don’t want to do.
   This is the reverse of the above lesson and fairly self-explanatory. If you know they really don’t like doing something, and if that something is for you and of no benefit to them, then why ask them to do it unless you are being selfish or mean?
4. Do not belittle your partner.
   Everyone makes mistakes in life and everyone works or catches on at different speeds. If you spend your time nagging at your partner or putting them down about every little thing they do wrong, then how can you expect them to do anything right? Do you want a life-partner or a puppy dog?
5. Do not put off things you have promised to do.
   Trust is an important part of any relationship and it needs to be developed. If you say you are going to do something and don’t, then how can your partner rely on you in the future?
6. Always be there for your partner.
   Nothing is more important in your life than your partner. Friends come and go, as do children, but your partner is with you for the whole journey. If they are in trouble or need you, nothing else matters, other than to be there for them.
7. Communicate.
   Things change in a relationship almost on a daily basis. If you don’t talk to your partner you could very easily wake up one day and find that you have drifted too far apart to bridge the gap.
8. Do not commit adultery or other harmful acts against your relationship.
   This one is really self-explanatory. Nothing destroys a relationship faster than infidelity or wrong doings.
9. Treat your partner with respect.
   It is extremely easy to take someone for granted and once you start to cross that line, it is very difficult to go back. Be careful not to treat your partner worse than you would treat your best friend.
10. Be open and receptive to your partner’s wants and wishes.
    It takes two people to have a relationship and when you shut one of them out because you are not open to their ideas and wishes then you really don’t have a relationship at all. Always be open and receptive to what they say. Also, be open to new experiences and ideas, you never know what you might learn.

Sometimes Im thinking about how to be a better partner in his life, all the best for him. But sometimes too, I didn’t return it back for what I have done.. I shouldn’t think like that. It is not sincere.. it is only my faults? Or it is only his attitude? If he did like that I always wonder, what is on his mind? What exactly he’s thinking about, what make it so special to him? I wonder… always try to be a wonderful partner for a man that I loved..